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Jenna Karvunidis has changed her tune since introducing the world to the concept of the “gender reveal party” in 2008.
The California mom and law student reveals how her daughter’s affinity for suits has given her a new perspective on gender, sex and the phenomenon she started, on the latest episode of thePEOPLE Every Daypodcast with host Janine Rubenstein.
“She just gravitated toward what she liked and I picked up on it,” Karvunidis says. “And as she gets older, she’s, ‘Mom, I want to cut my hair short, I want to wear a tuxedo. And I want these other things.’ And I’m like, ‘That’s fine. Whatever you want to do.’ She’s adorable.”
She explains that she got her oldest daughter, 12, a black tuxedo for her first birthday. But it wasn’t until they were taking family photos for their Christmas card around the time she was 8 or 9 that Karvunidisbegan to rethinkwhat she thought she knew.
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Although sex reveal parties have become commonplace with expecting moms on social media, they often face criticism for forcing a gender binary on children before they’re even born. Not to mention, parents-to-be have gotten creative — and even dangerous — with their reveals, in some casescausing injuries or even death.
In the past year alone, sex reveal parties have caused deaths in aplane crashand aforest fire, forcing Karvunidis todenounce them. “Stop it. Stop having these stupid parties,” she wrote on Facebook in September, amid theEl Dorado Wildfire. For the love of God, stop burning things down to tell everyone about your kid’s penis. No one cares but you."
“We definitely need to stay safe and just really re-examine where they’re coming from with this party, because really it’s become politicized a bit because these parties become so aggressive with the guns,” Karvunidis says on PEOPLE Every Day. “They’ve really tied themselves in with a gun rights message, which is so far from my belief.”
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source: people.com