Lucy Halewon’t lower her standards for any man.
ThePretty Little Liarsalum, 33, revealed that she won’t settle for a fixer-upper boyfriend after doing so in the past.
“I think that you can find someone who you mentally, emotionally, spiritually and physically connect with — like, a 10 out of 10 in each area,” she said on theBroad Ideas with Rachel Bilsonpodcast. “I think that is possible. I think so many people settle. I’m not gonna f—in' settle. I’ll die alone before I settle. It’s so dramatic, but that’s just how I feel.”
She added, “I have journals where I’ve written out specifically what I’m looking for because I do believe in the power of manifestation.”
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“I’ve not been in what I would consider a committed relationship for years — for a couple of different reasons,” she said. “But I’m in that place where I’m thinking, ‘OK, I know exactly what I’m looking for and what I’ve dated in the past, it was essentially a carbon copy of the same dude.'”
She continued, “I typically liked a little project to fix, like, your problems are worse than mine, so you’re gonna make me feel better about myself just because I’m helping, you know, ‘fix you.'”
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The actress also detailed what she is now looking for in a potential suitor.
“After my last relationship ended, I had all these non-negotiables, which some people might call way too picky, but I just have these standards and I refuse to believe that that’s not out there,” she shared. “And so I’ve been single for so long because … they don’t have this, and I’ve just had to be really patient.”
“I definitely have an open mind to … dating someone different as well,” she added. “But it’s more I just fall back to the self-respect and self-worth that I have now that I didn’t have earlier in my life.”
Hale wants to find someone who is “spiritually evolved,” can make her laugh and has self-awareness.
“He has to be funny. It’s like, it kills me,” she adds. “It’s my biggest, like, slayer. Like, f—ing make me laugh and I will pull down my pants.”
Hale is also not interested in playing games with her future lover. “I’ve had to really undo that way of thinking because the cat-and-mouse thing was something. Almost like, I was, like, addicted to that chase for a while, but that’s exhausting and we’ve moved past that. No games,” she said.
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Hale also revealed that she was in love with her brother’s best friend at 14 years old and lost her virginity to him, saying, “It just opened my eyes to really believing — and I think I’ve done it quite a few times in my life where I manifest things, and it is powerful.”
She now believes that she will “probably end up with someone around my age or older, just because of [my] non-negotiables” and noted that she’s dated men up to 52 years of age.
“I feel like a lot of people in that older age bracket will meet those,” she said.
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Hale has previously been linked to actorSkeet Ulrich, formerBachelorColton Underwood, musician Anthony Kalabretta and country singer Joel Crouse.
In December 2021, Hale told PEOPLE that she will not settle “for less than what I think I deserve.”
source: people.com
