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Tom Schwartz, Tom Sandoval, Jax Taylor

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Last week,Tom Schwartzreunited frenemiesTom SandovalandJax Taylor, pulling off aVanderpump Rulesfeat that seemed incredibly unlikely — if not impossible — given the tumultuous year the reality stars have gone through.

The unexpected get-together atSchwartz & Sandy’stook place eight and a half months after the Bravoverse erupted intoScandoval, when Sandoval’s now-exAriana Madixdiscovered he’d been having amonths-long affairwithVPRcastmateRachel “Raquel” Leviss. The betrayal triggered the end of the couple’snine-year relationshipand immediatelydivided the show’s castbothpastand present.

Taylor, 44, was among the formerVanderpumpstars who spoke out against Sandoval, 41 — though longtime viewers will know it wasn’t the first time (and surely won’t be the last) that the “No. 1 Guy in the Group” decided to take the Most Extras singer down a notch.

Sandoval and Taylor “have been on the outs for a long time,” Schwartz, 41, admits to PEOPLE, “but I think people forget that Tom and Jax have been friends longer than I’ve been friends with both of them. I’m talking almost 20 years.”

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Tom Sandoval, Kristen Doute, Katie Marie Maloney, Stassi Schroeder, Jax Taylor, and Scheana Marie of “Vanderpump Rules” attend the 2013 Bravo Upfront at Pillars 37 Studios

Schwartz continues, “It’s like sometimes I feel like we’re a trio. We’re like brothers. Those are my Los Angeles brothers. They’re first two people I met along withKristen Doute. We all lived together and we were slightly dysfunctional, but we loved each other and we came up together and I have a deep bond with both those guys.”

He acknowledges, “Sometimes their dynamic, it’s love-hate — maybe more emphasis on the latter lately, butI feel like they had a little breakthrough recently. They’ve been communicating more often.”

He quips, “They kind of haveJohn C. Reilly/Will FerrellinStep Brothersdynamic. But I think deep down they do love each other at the end of the day. I think I can speak on behalf of them.”

While admitting that the relationship has “been touch-and-go,” Schwartz says that “it was really nice for me because I kind of feel like a child of divorce sometimes with those two because Jax and Tom are two of my best friends on the planet and I love them dearly.”

He notes, “They’re also very different people. And anyways, they’re both doing really well right now, and it was really nice to see them together. … It was just a really, really great night. It felt cozy and happy, and the holiday spirit was alive and well. "

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Jax Taylor attends the House Of Sillage Holiday Boutique Launch event at House of Sillage on November 01, 2018 in Costa Mesa, California., Tom Sandoval attends the 2022 MTV Movie & TV Awards: UNSCRIPTED at Barker Hangar in Santa Monica, California and broadcast on June 5, 2022.

Back in March,Taylor had little grace for Sandoval when he talked to PEOPLE.

“I’ve done my fair share of bad things,” he admitted to PEOPLE when asked about Sandoval’s infidelity. As for theSpecial Forcesstar’sinitial apology statementon March 4, one day after the news of his affair became public knowledge, Taylor said bluntly that he wanted Sandoval to “step down from [his] little pedestal for a minute. Stop making this about Tom Sandoval and making do better decisions. You should have called [Ariana] first. There’s just no empathy there.”

For their part, Taylor and Schwartz have maintained close contact throughout the scandal, despite theHouse of Villainsstar calling out Schwartz for harboring knowledge of the affair for “at least a couple months” before it was exposed. That said, he thought, Sandoval “shouldn’t have put Tom in that position.”

He said of Sandoval, “When you get to a certain point, you think you have this diva mentality where you’re just not going to get in trouble and you’re not going to get caught. He’s gotten to that point where he’s [thinking], ‘I can’t be touched. I can do whatever I want.’ And it caught up with him.”

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Vanderpump Rulescan be streamed in full on Peacock.

source: people.com